But not. For me, there are never emotional feelings involved with my little love muffins. I just love to cuddle. Is cuddling cheating? The question that I was having so much trouble answering turned into a minute discussion.
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So, the chemicals your brain releases both during a cuddle sesh and a sexual encounter are completely identical. This whole situation sounds a little bit odd to me. Why am I alone, snuggling with a guy who is not my boyfriend?
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I was hoping that it would just be platonic.
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I don't think there's anything wrong with it. It's just nice to have a warm body there sometimes. Our group is closer than most normal groups of friends, maybe that's the difference between us and all the other respondents to this post. So yes, you Frieend. At least I can.
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I think they can but only during certain times. Such as in times of loss. Other than that not really, it usually means something sexually. When I was going through a really tough breakup, I ran into a guy I kinda sorta knew. Turns out, we got along really well and he was going through a sucky breakup too.
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I think they can, but only in very specific scenarios. Firstly, there's the obvious: You're staving off hypothermia or you lose a bet. I also have a gay friend who would often cuddle with my female friends. Pretty sure that's platonic. How is this even a 'debate'?
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Platonic friends should not be cuddling, imo. Some 'blurred lines' should not be crossed. You're either 'more than friends' or you're not. Pick one. And act accordingly. Hey I cuddle with people who are just friends. It feels good, wr definitely not sexually.
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I have guarded female friendships. I exchange events of my day with my librarian and cashier and occasional study partners. I don't invite them over for shits and giggles.
I hug many of my guy friends, but never ever cuddle. Cuddling, to me, means you have crossed the threshold of platonic. IMO cuddling is one Adult want sex TX Bridge city 77611 closer to something romantic. I wouldnt cuddle up to one of my female friends. I have a wife. Right there that should tell you something, it has a deeper feeling than just a platonic situation.
I mean if your SO said they had a platonic cuddle with someone else, I don't think you'd be okay with it. This sort of thing weirds me out a bit too. I'm a gay guy and this sort of thing seems more common in the gay community than the standard populace. I don't do physical intimacy Wives want sex Moultonborough that unless they are someone I'm romantically involved with.Lady Seeking Casual Sex WI Allenton 53002
I've had a few friends wanh it with me and it just plain makes me very uncomfortable. I feel like in principle, yes, friends can cuddle, but in practice, it just doesn't happen. At the very least, it tends to be initiated by one party that may be Friend gf cuddle buddy whatever we want in more, while the other feels like they are close enough friends that it's not "weird.
Otherwise, I feel like it wouldn't naturally happen if neither was interested, not even maybe just a little bit. On second thought, after reading through responses on here and thinking back more, there are actually whatsver few times I've platonically cuddled with women. Watching movies, staying warm, camping, even watching my college football games for comfort, and one instance in college with a shared hotel bed.Single Ladies Wants Nsa Worcester
So shit, I don't know, I guess in some cases it can be truly platonic. I've platonically cuddled with female friends before, on couches and on a bed. I've shared beds with a female friends buuddy I've Married for married nsa discreet fun somewhere, or they've crashed at mine.
And some of those times we've ended up snuggling without anything sexual happening. I've also cuddled up with my sister on Friend gf cuddle buddy whatever we want couch while buvdy movies, and that definitely wasn't sexual.
Granted we were much younger at the time. What you're looking for is the emotional intimacy, security, and warmth of a male presence without being sexually available.
If you want the benefits of a man in your life but without having to deal with his pesky sex drive, make gay friends. I would love a platonic cuddle buddy. Casual sex can be nice sometimes, but that's not affection.
I want some affection and warm fuzzies haha. The test for whether or not a thing can be truly platonic is "would a man do it with another man? Yes of course a cuddle can be platonic. Are you guys seriously telling me you've never enjoyed someone's touch without being overcome by infatuation? Sure, I can nonsexual cuddle with Single women in Outouke mom, sister, daughter, dog, cat, but Friend gf cuddle buddy whatever we want a just a friend?
My brothers friends hold this opinion and I think it's ridiculous personally. If you want to have cuddling with others Friend gf cuddle buddy whatever we want Feiend bounds" for your relationship, that's your prerogative, but have the conversation honestly with your partner. Claiming it's the same as a hug or peck hello and goodbye is silliness.Naughty Wife Seeking Nsa Andover
It's extended physical intimacy. Don't try to fool yourself or worse your cuedle as to why you're enjoying it. That to me is the disrespectful part. Not at all. That's fucking retarded. Not really, no. Generally speaking, if I'm holding a girl close my body is gonna be confused about what to do. Platonic cuddling has one function and one function only - revealing to me how idiotic the person is who thinks this is actually a 'thing'.
I've cuddled with a friend.
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We were drunk, her boyfriend was so drunk that she couldn't sleep in the bed with him, she slept on Frjend couch with me. And probably not spoon cuddling. I cuddle with my bestie, but I'd never cuddle with any of my other guy bhddy and I'd never spoon with someone I wasn't attracted to. I laid in bed with a friend and we just talked about things that were currently going on in our lives.
It was a big getaway for a bunch of classmates, and we laid there, not spooning, but side by Ladies wants sex MO Harrisburg 65256, comfortably. It was nice, and I didn't get a boner. I think what you've typed answers this it itself, it depends on what you, as an individual, consider to be cuddling, what that entails.
If you think cuddling is a long hug, but are bufdy with long hugs with friends then you're okay with cuddling. But if Friend gf cuddle buddy whatever we want see cuddling as spooning, then you're potentially talking about something different. Context matters. I think JUST cuddling on it's own can be too much, but a little cuddle while you're both more focused on a film is fine, or if one Frlend you has gone through something rough.
Totally depends on time to me as well. I've not gonna cuddle a friend for more than a couple of minutes. I have never Friend gf cuddle buddy whatever we want this. I would very much want this to be the case, but I think that most people will keep a distance, prefering Fdiend over cuddling and such as friends. I think you can cuddle as friends.
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If both truly find it platonic, then I don't see the harm done. I think the hurt can happen when one is dishonest with themselves and really does like the person. I could in theory cuddle with a female friend - in particular I am imagining a situation where she needs physical comforting - picture a woman distraught and unrepentantly crying about the loss of a family member.
I could physically comfort her by cuddling and it wouldn't be weird Friend gf cuddle buddy whatever we want it wouldn't be sexual. However, I could not provide the same physical support to a man, nor could I otherwise cuddle with a Friend gf cuddle buddy whatever we want platonically without sexual motive.
I had one friend I platonically cuddled with once. I was severely depressed, having trouble sleeping because I kept myself up crying all night. He cuddled me to sleep a few nights, and would sneak out when he was sure I was asleep. It really was just innocent comfort, like when your mother holds you as a child. Not for men. I would not cuddle any of my male friends, and I'd only feel comfortable cuddling a woman I'm really into. For me, there are only two acceptable examples of platonic cuddling: It just Only if one friend is so Woman want nsa Crystal Lake into the friendzone that friend barely exists in the regular real world zone any longer.
For women: For guys: There's really only one person Friend gf cuddle buddy whatever we want can cuddle platonically with and its one of my best friends. I find the concept very interesting but I turn into a sweaty freak when someone is lending me their body heat. I think it's Friend gf cuddle buddy whatever we want a comfort thing, neither of us are interested in anything romantic or sexual. I would and have hugged friends that needed comforting i.
Other than that, I can't think of any reason for a platonic cuddle. That's a complicated question. Because with some it's just strictly platonically but with others it could seem that way at first but then lead to something else. I have a background in theater, performing arts, circus, ren fests, writing, and sculpture. I've been involved in a lot of platonic cuddling, cuddle puddles, back massages, changing rooms, costume changes, tent living, and hitch hiking.
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